5 Decisions That Stops You From Achieving Your Goal

Category: SUCCESS Published: Wednesday, 24 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon

Success Advice

 Life hates to dictate for us, which is why Mother Nature implanted in us the faculty of the freedom of choice. What this means is that, you can choose the way you want to live your life. If you are financially ill, it is not because poverty chooses you, but because you chose poverty.

Poverty is a choice, so with riches. Your choice determines the consequences. Nobody has ever, and can ever escape the consequences of his choices. You must learn the full meaning of it.

The good life of the rich is the full meaning of their choice. The suffering of the poor is the full meaning of their choice. Your financial problem is the full meaning of your choice. Nature has made everything we need to succeed free of charge.

That is why we don’t pay for the ability to think, dream, imagine, desire and acquire the state of mind that raises men from anonymity to legendary heights, rag- to-riches, grass to grace.

The world does not owe you anything. In fact, everything needed for you to live beautifully and accomplish success in every area of your life is at your doorstep.That is why they say, “The best things in life are free.”

That is why a towering activist and India founder father, Mahatma Gandhi, said, “Champions are made from something they have deep inside of them.”

One of the richest men of all time John D. Rockefeller, stated, “I believe the power to make money is a gift from God to be developed and used to the best of our ability for the good of mankind. Having been endowed with the gift I possess, I believe it is my duty to make money.”

Why do you complain that you lack money, when you are in possession of special talents, physical abilities, mental powers and above all an indomitable spirit? Do you think it is for nothing to be so endowed?

One of the reasons you are not rich is that you don’t understand your problem? You can see that your case is a bit different. I want you to understand your problem! Your problem is not that you don’t have money, but that you have not picture it with the eyes of your mind and use your brainpower to make it visible in your bank account.

To think you are poor is the greatest ignorance in the world. After one of my seminars, a Youngman of about twenty-five or there about walked up to me and said, “Sir, if really am in possession of all the mental powers and special abilities you claim I possess why am I still poor.” Without looking at him I replied, “Because you decide to be poor,” and walked away.

The devil has little or nothing to do with your economic turmoil. Your decision is what stands between you and affluence.That is why the 40th president of the United States, Ronald Reagan said, “There are no constraints on the human mind, no walls around the human spirit, no barriers to our progress except those we ourselves erect.”

Do you want to know the 5 decisions that stops you from getting rich? If yes, then find out below.

1. Ignoring your talent

Bear in mind that not putting your talent to practical use is one decision responsible for your economic recession. Yes, if you have a sonorous voice but you are teaching, you have reached a decision and your decision is to die a pauper.

If you are fascinated with mechanical things but you are pursuing a singing career, you have reached a decision and your decision is to go through life as a failure.

Remember, action speaks louder than word. That thing you find pleasurable, you find yourself doing when no one is there to applaud you is your path to wealth. No matter the challenges, never stop doing it. Keep on doing it and before long, you will find yourself at the top.

2. Living with unhealthy habits

If you enjoy sleeping and yawing into the morning or hate being alone you have reached a decision and your decision is to die coinless.

Oh, yes! You have decided to live the rest of your life as a pauper, because an individual who wants to impact the world and achieve financial independence, wakes at the middle of the night to draft out plans and design strategies.

He is rarely seen in the crowd because he is always alone thinking of how to put his plans into action.

3. Not taking out time to read

If you rather die than sit down to read a book, you have reached a decision and your decision is to go through life as a failure.

How do you expect to know the state of mind of great minds and stand upon the shoulders, when you hardly open a book?

One of the greatest minds who ever lived, Isaac Newton once said, “If I have seen further than others, it is by standing upon the shoulders of giants.”

According to the first black female self-made billionaire in the world, Oprah Winfrey, “Books were my pass to personal freedom! I learned to read at age 3, and soon discovered there was a whole new world to conquer that went beyond our farm in Mississippi.”

Each time you read a book, you learn something new. If you don’t read, you cannot separate facts from fiction. Remember, knowledge is power.

Every secret you need to effect a change in your finances and every area of your life is on paper. All you have to do is uncover them.

How do you intend to do this when you don’t read at least one book a month. People who are “Hungry” to do more and have more and who are determined to excel in everything they lay their hands, read at least one book a month.

Research finds that 85 percent of rich people read two or more education, career related or self-improvement books per month and it works greatly for them.

4. Unable to control yourself

Self-control is vital to human progress. If you don’t learn to control yourself, you have decided to go through life as a failure. Saying one thing and doing another is anathema to success. Success is no Childs play, at least you know this.

Successful people stand by a resolve. There are things success requires to manifest; one of which is time.The ability for you to say to your friends, “Sorry guys, I can’t follow you to that party right now, I gat to prepare for so and so,” is what spell success.

It takes self-control to do that. This is one of the reasons you must invest in personal-development. While not use this book on "personal-development" The Requirements For Riches to build a mind of success today.

5. Raising shoulders

You have made it abundantly clear you want to die a pauper if you are good at raising shoulders and crossing legs. How do you expect to get something from me when you already made it clear with your action you have it in abundance.

Or don’t you know each time you raise your shoulders and cross your legs what you are saying is, “Look, I am a big guy! I have it all. In fact, come and work in my company.”

This is the major reason a proud person always misses opportunity and hardly receives. When you are proud, People expect to get from you all the time because they believe you have a bank at the back of your compound.

If I am Bill Gates for example, and you raise your shoulders and cross your legs while talking with me, instead to think of what I can give to you, I will think of what I can get from you.

Remember, it was pride that changed an angel to devil. Not until you learn to put down your feet and shoulders, you have reached a decision and your decision is to go through life as a failure.

As meek as Humility, it can open any door. Saint Augustus has this advice for you, “Do you wish to rise? Begin by descending. You plan a tower that will pierce the clouds! Lay first the foundation of humility”.

Do you know that when you are not exercising all that nature gifted you, you have reached a decision and your decision is to be poor? In sum, do you know that not changing old habits means that you have reached a decision and your decision is to be poor?

If you have not start to train your mind, you have reached a decision and your decision is to remain financially handicapped all your life.

No matter how hardworking you are, you have reached a decision and your decision is to die a pauper when you don’t apply your thinking machine [brainpower]and have not developed your mind.

No god, demon or angel can make you rich when you don’t have the right spirit and do things that make people rich. Dear esteemed reader, there is no god anywhere that favors an ignorant person.






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3 Easy Steps to Becoming a Millionaire

Category: SUCCESS Published: Wednesday, 24 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon

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Forbes rated Columbia drug lord Pablo Escobar, as one of the richest men in the world in his lifetime. In fact, the Medellin cartel boss was so rich that while in hiding, he burned down more than two million dollars currency in order to warm his daughter, Manuela, from cold.

He was so powerful that even while sentenced to jail, the Columbia government told him to build his own prison can you imagine that!

The prison he built for himself known as La Cathedral, boasted of a Jacuzzi, a rotating bed, a dull house for his children, a nightclub, a football court and everything you could think of. During his time as the Medellin cartel boss, he was earning so much money that he was unable to launder it all.

It ended up being stored in warehouses, farms and houses where billions were said to be lost. This was what his brother and accountant Robert Escobar wrote in his book. “Pablo was earning so much that each year we would write off ten percent of the money because the rats would eat it in storage or it would be damaged by water or lost.”

However, in spite of his great fortune, he was gunned down and killed in his prime and his property confiscated by the Columbia government. Do you call that success? His son Juan in his interview said that despite all the money that they had, there were times he and his father would almost starve to death from where they were hiding.

He said,”Drug trafficking destroyed my family. It gave us the world and then it took it away.” This was what he said about his father. “He showed us the path we must never take as a society because it’s the path to self-destruction.”

Perhaps, a great mind was right when he said, “Don’t call any man fortunate until you have seen his end." There are two paths to riches, the legal and illegal paths.

As you step foot on the later, you must have it at the back of your mind that you have not only traded your peace of mind but also start to dig your own grave. This way seems right but ends in destruction.

To go through it you don’t need to set a goal and all that. In fact, all you simply need is a gun or a criminal mind. Obviously, we are living in a world where a dubious person, a corrupt official and even an armed robber is considered to be successful as long as he has money.

However, the truth is a wealth that robs the mind of peace cannot be defined as success. Success is to get to your goal in life and sleep with your two eyes closed. Success should make one happy and not scared.

If you are rich and cannot close your two eyes to sleep at night, you are not a successful person. Coach Wooden, made use to understand that Success is a peace of mind, which is a direct result of self-satisfaction in knowing you did your best to become the best you are capable of becoming.

This explains explicitly what the inventor of the basketball Dr. James Naismith meant when he said, “I am sure that no man can derive more pleasure from money or power than I do from seeing a per of basketballs goals in some out of the way places.”

There is no such word as genuine success, success is success and does not have a counterfeit. Therefore, if you are thinking of making it through the back door I am sorry to disappoint you, you have to look elsewhere, because this article is for those who want to accomplish success. Anyway, I know you don’t want to become a criminal.

Nevertheless, if you are thinking of becoming one because you feel it is an easy way out of poverty, I am glad to inform you that you no longer need to toy that repulsive path because this site is here to help you get whatever you want.You don’t need a gun to be rich, what you need is:


1. A goal

To be rich and successful, what you need is a goal not a gun, a plan not a gang! All that you ever need in life you can get by simply setting up a goal and pursuing it. Setting a worthwhile goal and moving into action is a quick way of making money.

It is a get- rich- quick secret. I don’t know why no one is unveiling this obvious fact to kids. Remember, no criminal in history became a billionaire at age 23.

At 23, Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg was already a billionaire. At 20, the youngest of the Kardashin sisters Kylie Jenner is already worth nine hundred million dollars [$900m]. If you set a goal and do the following things listed below, you will get rich faster than you thought possible.

a. Draft out a plan on how you intend to achieve it

b. Find out what the goal requires and give it

c. Set a realistic deadline and go the extra mile to meet up to it

d. Put something on the line, in the view not to retreat or surrender


Note: You can get rich using a gun but can never achieve success with it. An individual who cannot sleep with his two eyes close at night can’t be said to be successful even if he has all the money in the world. Pablo Escobar is a perfect example.

He had so much money that his problem became how to spend them but was not truly living! From his eldest son confession, you will know the kind of bondage this man was in despite all his Millions and billions.

2. Create a plan

A plan and a dream are like husband and wife without one success cannot be born. After setting a goal, the next thing to do is to create a plan in which to attain that goal. 

3. Attain the hero’s spirit

Only heroes triumph in battle, only heroes achieve outstanding success in life. You can never attain an enviable height if you are not a hero in your innermost self [the core of your nature].There are many things success requires to manifest that you can never give or do if your spirit is at its natural state.

Just as the power of a leopard resides in its claws, the power to effect a change in your finances and every area in which you desire a change resides in your innermost self. This subliminal power is the dynamic ability in man to cause change.

It is called the active force or sublime magnetic force. All successful people whether they were aware of it or not us this spirit to succeed

Therefore, a greater premium and attention must be placed on stimulating your spirit. If you don't you cannot incite it to action. This means that negative attribute such as self-distrust and fear will gain dominion and mastery over you. Remember, self-distrust is the number one cause of failure.

Wealth is not within your reach not because you are not cut out for great things but simply because you have not stimulated your spirit to the state whereby, it can afire you to act upon the thoughts of riches. Successful people who consider themselves lucky are those who stimulated their spirits unconsciously.

How Do I Stimulate My Spirit?

To stimulate your spirit to the hero’s state, you need to acquire and master the intangible forces essential for change called the esteemed virtues. To learn how to stimulate your spirit and acquire the capacity to cause change, i highly recommend The Requirements For Riches a  personal-development book.

Thanks for giving me your time. I wish you a resounding success in your pursuits








Why you need a coach

Category: SUCCESS Published: Saturday, 06 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon

Microsoft co-4ounder and world richest man Bill Gates said, “Everyone needs a coach it doesn’t matter whether you are a basketball player, tennis player, a gymnast or a bridge player.”

There is no doubt I know you would like to become rich like the Bill Gates and Warren Buffets of this world, I know you would love to be famous like the Michael Jordan’s and Oprah Winfrey’s of this world. Of course, I know you would also love to be successful in all areas of your life.

Then you need a coach that would train your mind, open your eyes and set you on the pathway to success. A Wiseman has rightly said, “In the mist of counsellors there is accomplishment.” There are many things you are doing that is undermining your ability to live a better life.

There are many things that is putting money out of your reach. I can’t wait to open your eyes to this things and set you on the pathway to greatness. Do you have a coach? If you don’t, just as Gates rightly said you need one to change your perception, reshape your beliefs and help you attain your goal? How can I get a good coach? I will tell you.

Well, it is as simple as this; enter your name and email below and let begin a relationship that will take you to greatness. A relationship that guarantee success. I want to teach you how to unleash your subliminal power and bring it to bear upon your finance, relationship/marriage and in every area in which you desires change.

Be difficult to fool, you don’t need luck or connection to be rich, you don’t need to struggle and work yourself to pop before you can attain the height envisage. As long as you are a human being and not a ghost you carry success in your innermost self. All you have to do is take possession of it, it is as simple as that.

Do you want to have a million dollars in your bank account within a year from now? If you answer “yes” as am sure it is, then be ready to work in the principles I will make available to you through your email. It is significant to note that principle makes success predictable, makes success inevitable.

Without principles it will be impossible for man to succeed. However, there are principles fundamental for success. Riches is not an exclusive privilege of a Whiteman, Blackman or a green man but of the man or woman, with the right consciousness.

If something is wrong with your finance, it is because something is wrong with your innermost self. Your relationship/marriage cannot be heading to the rocks when nothing is wrong with your attitude.

You are two things to your problem the cause and the solution, comprehending this is your first step toward success. If you want tips that would help you build a healthy relationship/marriage and help you live a life of super abundance then, SIGNING UP FOR OUR NEWSLETTER IS NOT AN OPTION BUT A MUST.

I Did Only These 3 Things to Get to The Top

Category: SUCCESS Published: Wednesday, 24 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon

Success Advice

The birds flutter freely and fearlessly in the sky because they are entitled to it and do not need permission from anybody. Do you know that your right to good health, fat bank account, healthy marriage /relationship is not negotiable?

Understand that you don’t pay a penny for the average of five million times you breathes in a year because life is your right.

You don’t pay a dime either for the ability to think, dream, imagine, desire and apply your brainpower because wealth is your right. Little wonder a great mind said, “If you are not grateful, you are a great fool.”

Helen Keller was deaf and blind yet she was grateful and spoke of the joy that life gave her. She was thankful for the faculties and abilities that she possessed, and stated that the most productive pleasure she had were curiosity and imagination.

She made a difference and left behind a footprint on the sand of time because she recognized what she had and made perfect use of it during her sojourn on earth.

A Wise man counselled: “No matter how good or bad you have it, wake up each day thankful for your life. Someone somewhere else is desperately fighting for his.”

Whether you are weak or strong, rich or poor, you must declare yourself a champion! Because you survive each second, minute, hour, day, week, month and year, despite all that the world goes through. If no one celebrates you, you must celebrate yourself.

A lizard jumped from a rooftop, and when it landed on the ground saw no one to applaud it. Instead, to bother over that, it applauded itself by nodding its head. Because you are a champion, you must extend your limits and make things happen.

You must de-envelop that enveloped in you and develop your world. I can hear you say, “Mr. Man save your preaching I have heard all that before it did not put a dollar in my pocket."

Yes, Sometimes, we can’t help but ask that preacher man who never ceased to remind us that we are destined for greatness; “Sir, If really what you are sayings is true, how come am still where I was yesterday?”

I know how you feel to wake up with hope everyday but end up disappointed. I know how it feels like to be overrun by those who just yesterday, were behind us. I understand how hurting it is. In fact, I was once in such a situation but was able to turn things around for good because I start to do the following things:

1. I Learn To Be Grateful

This really was the corner stone of hit for me. Gratitude is the attitude that determines your altitude in life. In fact, gratitude is a foundation for the development of such virtues as contentment, happiness and love.

In case you don’t know, love is an esteemed virtues needed to succeed in life. If you are grateful for the air you breathe and the life you live, you will love yourself. Only when you are truly in love with yourself that you can see the good in you.

That is why the founder of Buddhism Siddhartha Gautama [Buddha] said, “You yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”

Being grateful, keeps us away from the blame game. It is difficult to think, dream and see open doors, when we moaning, groaning and apportioning blames. Despite Helen Keller’s disabilities, she was grateful to be alive.

This consciousness more than anything else, opens up her understanding to the good in her. It is difficult if not impossible-for you to get what you want if you don’t value what you have. Only an individual with a grateful heart excel in business.

If you don’t learn to be grateful in little, your employee will never put in their best. Joel Osteen said, “Choosing to be positive and having a grateful attitude is getting to determine how you are going to live your life.”

2. I Start To Take Responsibility For My Actions

I woke up one night to ask myself a question, which is, when will I stop existing and start living? As I pondered on it, I realized for the first time that my life was an airplane and I was the pilot.

I realized I could pilot it to poverty, riches or crash-land it! I realized that night that the reason I wasn’t standing was not that there were superglue on my chair, but simply because my pull was not in alignment with the vibration of standing.

I uncovered how valuable time is and decided to make judicious use of it rather than waste it on feeling sorry for myself or criticizing a government that don’t even know I exist.

This consciousness changed my life. In the words of the 26th United States president, Theodore Roosevelt: “If you could kick the person in the pants responsible for most of your trouble, you wouldn’t sit for a month.” Life is 10 percent of what happens to you and 90 percent of how you react.

3. I Start To Address Myself With A Big Title

Surprisingly, not long after I start to refer to myself as champ, I find myself acting like one and becoming one. That you are not rich is because you are not calling yourself a rich person in words and deeds.

You must expect great things of yourself before you can do them. What you call yourself is what you are; that is just the way it is. The universe responds to what you think and feel according to the law of attraction.

It is your failure to recognize this fundamental principle of success, that set a limit on you. Legendary boxer Muhammad Ali said, “To be a great champion you must believe you are the best. If you are not pretend you are.”

The three things listed above helped me in no small measure to climb to where I am today. You succeed faster when you are basically driven by a clear principle. Principles make success predictable and inevitable.

I specially recommend this self-improvement book [The Requirement For Riches] for you. Get it to build a mind of success. It works!

It doesn’t matter how many times life have hit you with disappointments as simple as these things are, they will change your life faster than you thought possible.

If you start to do them, before long, you will begin to accumulate riches in such a way that will arouse the curiosity of everyone who knows you. I can’t be more certain of this.

Thanks for giving me your time. Wish you a resounding success in your pursuits!