2 Things That Stop you From Getting Rich

Category: MOTIVATION Published: Friday, 26 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon



Every successful man and woman you see today programmed himself or herself for success. People only fail when they programmed themselves to fail. What a computer is programmed to do is what you see it doing. In fact, it cannot perform a task it was not programmed for.

A mirror can only reflect whatever is set before it. Your position in life is the manifestation of your thoughts. If you can understand this A B C, then getting rich won’t be a problem to you.

According to a great mind, “The quality of your life depends on the state of mental programming.” If there is nothing wrong with a data, it is impossible for a computer to malfunction.

If something is wrong with it, a wise thing to do is to format it and install new programs. By wiping out the old software and files on it, you have removed the virus that stops you from enjoying the computer.

The reason you are not living the kind of life you desire is that there is a virus somewhere preventing you from getting rich and attaining the heights envisaged.

This virus stops you from aligning yourself with the vibration of success. That is why it has become impossible for you to take action whenever an opportunity knocks at your door.

Many ideas flashes through your head day in day out, that can turn you into a millionaire within the shortest time, you ignore them not because you don’t know what they mean, but simply because this virus has tied down your takeoff zeal.

Every day, you come across books online and ofline that can easily change your outlook and attitude toward life, and align you with the fundamental principles of success. You ignore them because of this virus that is now residing on your subconscious mind.

Understand that there is a reason Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg was able to become a billionaire at the young age of twenty-three. And there are reasons a person go through life as a failure.

Listed below are the reasons it has become impossible for you to achieve your dreams in life:

1. The thought pattern that governs your life

Many people came from an environment where all they heard while growing up was such statements as, “Life is not a bed of roses, life is hard, it is not easy, the struggle continues, the economy is bad,” In short, all kinds of complaints.

Since people who made these statements in words or actions were those that they looked up to, they accepted it as truth without a doubt. Today, the thought pattern they developed a long time ago, continues to govern their lives and set a limit on them.

Had they stopped to asked themselves questions and ponder over it long enough at that time; they would have realized that they listened to people that failed to set goals, people that loved to give up before a battle is started, People that rather die than think.

Irish novelist and poet James Stephens wrote, “We get wise by asking questions, and even if these are not answered, we get wise, for a well-packed question carries its answer on its back as a snail carries its shell.”

Shak Fats Made us understand that Geniuses ask questions with the same curiosity as kids do. It will interest you to know that over 85% of today’s millionaires came from a humble and disadvantaged background.

Some of them once lived in slums, once slept in vans, once wore near rag clothes, once considered eating twice a day as a divine grace. It is hard to believe when you see them in their Ferrari and private jet but it is the truth.

They were able to turn their lives and became an inspiration to many because they programmed themselves for success.

2. Your inability to ask questions

If you believe everything you hear I am afraid you might end up as a terrorist. I overheard someone who told his friend that his great-grandfather was the first president of Europe; I was surprised when the guy grinned and said, “Really...” Can you imagine that!

You can never excel in life when you allow others to use your brain for you. If you don’t think before you leap, you will fall into a ditch and break your legs or your neck. If something is not clear to you ask questions that is the best way to learn.

While I was in school, I did not know of any top student in my class that did not ask questions. In your time, if you know of any in your class, please do let me know.

Greek playwright and poet Euripides has this advice for you, “Question everything. Learn something. Answer nothing.”

A great mind put it this way, “Believe nothing merely because you have been told it. Do not believe what your teacher tells you merely out of respect for the teacher. But whatsoever, after due examination and analysis, you find to be kind, conducive to the good, the benefit, the welfare of all beings-that doctrine believe and cling to, and take it as your guide.”

Question the status quo. Don’t do it the way everyone says it must be done. By asking “Why” man was able to modify his environment to fit his need. If you start to question the status quo, you will come to the ultimate truth and do exploits.

You can never be poor if you learn to ponder on things. There is a treasure in a problem you don’t see it because you follow the crowd blindly.

Thanks for giving me your time.

I wish you a resounding success in your pursuits.







The Change You Seek is Within

Category: MOTIVATION Published: Friday, 26 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon


A famous actor and politician, Arnold Schwarzenegger once stated, “Failure is not an option, everyone has to succeed.” Friend, it is not a good thing that you are going all about with that old jalopy you called a car, what if it catches fire.

Not a good thing to chat up a pretty lady with a near rag suit, what if she sees the hole on it. Our beloved actor can’t be more right, failure is not an option. Something tells me all is not well with your marriage/relationship.

I just have this hunch that you are not happy with your health or finances. Although am not a prophet but I can see clearly that your mind is not in alignment with the direction the wind of life is blowing you.

It is, for this reason, I decided to introduce this site [Gate of success] to you. I decided to reach out to you through this medium because I know you are desperately in need of help.

I know you want a change in your life and want it really fast.

A little boy was learning how to skate [sliding by the aid or special shoes on snow]. His frequent tumbling elicited the sympathy of a man who was passing by.

The man grinned sympathetically and advice, “John, you are getting all banged up. Why don’t you stop for a while and just watch the others do it,”

With tears streaming down his eyes from his last fall, the little boy trained his eyes on his adviser and said, “Mister, I didn’t get these skates [shoes] to give up with, I got them to learn how with.”

Just like that little boy I know you didn’t open that business to close it, didn’t enter into that marriage or relationship to break it, didn’t built high hopes and dream big dreams to have them shattered.

In fact, I know you didn’t bargain for the drama happening in your life right now. But wait… Before you overwhelm yourself with despair and sink deep into depression, remember there cannot be dusk without dawn. No problem without a solution.

I am glad to inform that, I and my term have dedicated ourselves to helping you solve your problems. We are after your happiness and can’t wait to celebrate your success. Our method of achieving this aim is strictly motivation.

We believe that your greater tomorrow, the future upon which you rest your hope is now! We are also of the conviction that, the change that you seek must start from within you.

Alexander the Great was able to conquer the world not because he bears a charmed life, but because his parents were in the habit of stirring up thoughts of possibilities on his mind.

He started believing he could conquer the world when his mother queen Olympia, made him believes so, by promulgating his divine parentage.

This believe took form the day he rode the unruly stallion stubborn horse “Bucephalus” and his father, King Phillip 11, kissed him tearfully and said, “My boy, you must find a kingdom big enough for your ambition, Macedonia is too small for you.”

This statement more than anything else, changed Alexander’s outlook towards life. He started to have a sophisticated view of himself and before long, embarked on a campaign that seemed impossible to accomplish.

Alexander dared mightily! He touched the untouchable, tamed the untamable, passed the road that was impassable and achieved the impossible. He is remembered to this day as one of the greatest and most successful military commanders in the history of warfare.

Most of the world’s billionaires and multi-millionaires are not smarter or intelligent than you are, they are richer than you because of one obvious fate-they know what you don’t.

They easily get whatever they want because they have books, articles, and journals they use in igniting their spirits. That is why you see them daring mightily and succeeding beyond all measures.

Have you not seen the wonders of a motivated man? Once in a while it is good to dine with friends, good to dance, wine and party hard. But remember, it is also good to find out why your marriage/relationship is heading to the rocks and how to make it work again.

Why your neighbor is richer than you and how to bridge the gap. If you want to impact your world and achieve financial independence you must invest in self-development.

An investment in knowledge is an investment in destiny. Just as you create time to watch TV programs and to socialize with friends on social media, create time to read personal-development and career-related books, articles, and journals.

Listen to life-transforming tapes and attend seminars. You neglect this part that is why you are not living the better version of yourself. That is why you don’t know how cheap success is.

If you start doing this, something will change in you. The eyes of your understanding will be enlightened and you will start to see the world from a different perspective and do things the right way.

You now know where to go when you want to socialize with friends online; now know where to go when you want to search for information.

If you are looking for advice that will help you set worthwhile goals, build a healthy marriage/relationship and on the health issue, I recommend this site [Gate of success] to you.

The fact is that many problems have the built-in capability to grow more serious with the passing of time. If you don’t take action now, you are compounding your problem.

Don’t wait until things get from bad to worst. Visit us often to energize your spirit, visit us to stir up thoughts of possibilities on your mind, visit us to seek for a solution to your problem.

Thank you for giving me your time. I wish you a resounding success in your pursuits.




3 Habits Standing Between You and Your Goal

Category: MOTIVATION Published: Thursday, 25 October 2018 Written by Life Coach Efosa Emovon


Every day you have a reason to celebrate because you are unique and there is only one of you on planet earth. You have every reason to smile every day because you have everything you need to succeed in life. All through my years of study, I have never come across a word fit to describe how privileged you are.

Just imagine! You have an awesome brain whose power is unlimited, a sound mind that conceives things, amazing insight, insatiable curiosity and in addition, an imagination that invents and creates. Do you know you also possess the ability to think idea through, ability to form concepts out of what you see, a spirit when stimulated afire your mind to compel you to act upon thoughts of possibilities?

Are these potentials not enough to consider yourself blessed? Can you not see that you carry success in your innermost self? You look at yourself from a distance that is why you don’t see how big you are. Back then in kindergarten, there was a poem about the stars we use to recite. It goes like this:

Twinkle twinkle little star

How I wonder what you are

Up above the world so high

Like a diamond in the sky


Innocent young minds that we were, how could we have known that “Twinkle little star” was much larger than the very earth we live in? How could we have known that even the sun, which is a relatively average star, is many times the size of the earth? No one bothered to tell us how wrong we were, because it would have been difficult for us to understand.

The mistake we made as little kids is the same mistake you are making now. You look at yourself from a distance and believe you are small. If only you knew what your mind could conceive or what your brain can do, you will appreciate every single hair in your body.

Microsoft co-founder and one of the richest men of all time Bill Gates, has this advice for you, “Don’t compare yourself with anyone in this world if you do so, you are insulting yourself.”

Why You Are So Special

Popular Canadian sensational singer Celine Dionne, no doubt has a great voice, has great songs but the world is used to her style, they crave for something fresh and unique they want to hear you. You are that scientist, the inventor, musician, teacher, doctor, leader the world is waiting for to bring about that change they so desire.

The reason you did not live in the time of Socrates is that nature and the infinite intelligence were taking their time to create a masterpiece. You are a masterpiece! If you were born in the slum, it was because you were assigned to lead people out of it by becoming an inspiration.

You are the reason why the world is filled with so much hope. Without you, believe me, something is missing. The world lacks something only you can provide that is why philosophers, scientists, metal physicists and spiritual practitioners concede without reservation that everyone has something to give.

I want you to understand that you are not here to add to the world’s population but for a purpose. You are not here to waste away your life in jail or destroy it with cocaine but to prove that with just one sound idea, there can be a world with no starvation. With just one grand idea, they can be a world with no divorce.

You are here to prove that even though Proxima Centauri [closest star to earth is 4.22 light years, about 24,800,000,000,000 miles away] it is not out of reach. There can never be another you ever again, not in the next decade, not in the next century, not in the next millennium.

Do you know there is something you can do so well that nature and all her forces had to come together to invite you to planet earth? You are a specialist, an expert, a problem solver, a solution to a problem. Whether you believe it or not cannot erase the fact. Don’t cast a glance at that man, that woman beside you because It’s you I am talking to.

The reason I am telling you this is not to flatter you or something, but to remind you that irrespective of where you are coming from or what you are passing through right now you have a place in the world. Your name may not ring a bell like Donald Trump or Lady Gaga but it is a name anyhow. I took it upon myself to take you through this journey of SELF-rediscovery because you must know who you are.

If you don’t have what it takes to alter the course of history, why then did the Holy Bible claim you are a god. Why is the Holy Quran of the opinion that you have enough power to control the entire world and put the angels to your service? Your brain has 100 billion neurons, each neuron connected to 10 thousand other neurons.

In fact, sitting on your shoulders is the most complicated object in the universe.Would you like to know why you don’t have an empire despite wearing a crown? The reasons you are not living in abundance is as follow:

1. You lie to yourself

You cannot lie to your doctor and expect to get well. You lie to yourself all the time that is why things are not well with you. A foundation build on lie cannot hold. In case you don’t know, the feeling that you can’t, is the biggest lie in the world because it has been proven over and over again that nothing is impossible.

The lies you unconsciously tell yourself every day is what is preventing you from doing that which can make visible, millionaires and billionaires of dollars in your bank account. If you do away with this feeling of inadequacy, the lie will be powerless, and you will attain the heights envisaged.

2. Hanging around People Who Think Less Of You

One of the reasons you have not experienced unprecedented growth and success in life is that you are in a relationship where your partner think less of you. His perception of you has so altered your mind that you now see yourself through the eye of that person.That is why your spirit has become so weak that it will take a miracle for you to set worthwhile goals, let alone pursue them.

Hanging around people who don’t know what we are worth, makes it difficult for us to have a sophisticated view of ourselves. Remember, you cannot fight with a lion unless you see yourself as one.

You cannot become rich when you don’t see yourself as a rich person. A respected man of science Albert Einstein said, “Everybody is a genius but if you judge a fish by its inability to climb a tree, it will live its whole life believing that it is stupid.”

If you really desire a change in your finances and every area of your life, you must do away with people who think you into smallness. They are dangerous to your aspiration. No matter whom that person is to you do away with him.

3. Wishing to be someone else

Let me re-echo what Bill Gates said, “Don’t compare yourself with anyone in the world if you do so, you are insulting yourself.” After heaping insults on yourself how do you expect to produce something good! No matter how bad things are with you, don’t wish to be someone else if you do so, you are insulting your yourself.

We are all unique in our own different ways. Never lose sights of who you are, celebrate your uniqueness! Understand that you can never become who you are destined to be if you are striving to become someone else. Don’t try to be someone else, you can change the world from where you are, and the way you are.

One thing about this feeling is that, it takes our thoughts and bends them on the goal of the man or woman we wish to become. That is why innumerable songs are released every day but few hits. That is why our hospital s is filled with many doctors but few specialists. The truth is that, it takes more than a miracle to score a goal when your ballpoints at two goalposts.

If you waste your time and energy trying to be Michael Jordan or Lady Gaga how do you expect to discover who you are and what you have. This approach is anathema to self-realization. No one succeeds like this. In case you don’t know, every time you are envious of someone’s success, you say you wish to become that person.

The 3 things listed above are the habits that stands between you and your goal. They are anathema to success. If you change them, you are unstoppable.